I may understand all the technicality, but for me (as a casual photographer) "triangular" relation of shooting parameters [which affect resulting image brightness] is not nonsense. Sure we could think of better terms (ISO is the most misunderstood one), but having film background, I use this relation almost intuitively. Even in Auto-ISO mode (my preferred setting) :)
Anecdotal evidence too :)
ISO value is more noticeable than aperture value in my camera EVF. If I see 12800 (maximum for Auto-ISO) in normal shooting conditions then I know must have accidentally turned aperture dial into very wrong position (F/16), happens sometimes in cold weather, using gloves.
