Remember when I said, "The problem is, no matter how well explained, 'they' simply refuse to change their preconceptions. That is, exposure is the be-all and end-all and noise is entirely a result of the sensor."? EZGritz response is a textbook example of that. Note how he says that the 4x greater amount of light is spread over 4x as much area (which is true), so it's all the same in the end (which is false).
He, and the rest of the anti-equivalence crowd, simply cannot let go of exposure as being central, when, in fact, it is completely irrelevant in cross format comparisons (except inasmuch as exposure is a component of total light: Total Light = Exposure x Sensor Area). The reason exposure is used, rather than Total Light, is because for a given format, exposure and Total Light are essentially interchangeable, like mass and weight are when in the same acceleration field. But when comparing different formats, the distinction is central, just as is the distinction between mass and weight if, say, you are comparing a person on the Moon vs a person on Earth.
So, EZGritz is uninterested in your "mathematical wizardry" -- he's only thinking about exposure. Thus, the question to pose to him is the following:
Consider the following three scenarios:
1) mFT at 25mm f/2.8 1/400 ISO 1600
2) FF at 50mm f/2.8 1/400 ISO 1600
3) FF at 50mm f/5.6 1/400 ISO 6400
How do the exposure, lightness, noise, perspective, [diagonal] framing, DOF, and motion blur compare for all three? I'll give you my answers first. The perspective, [diagonal] framing, lightness, and motion blur are the same for all three. The DOF and noisiness of (1) and (3) are the same, and the DOF and noisiness of (2) is half of that. The exposure of (1) and (2) are the same, but the photo in (2) is made with 4x as much light as the photo in (1), which is why it's half as noisy. The exposure of (3) is two stops lower than the exposure of (1), but both are made with the same total amount of light, and that's why they are equally noisy.
Quick prediction: he won't care. TC might step in, but not to tell EZGritz to stop arguing against the facts and/or just drop it, but to once again whine about how everyone already knows all this and is tired of hearing it over and over.