I am very pleased that you have come round to my way of thinking. This is supporting what I have been saying all along.
It is a little more than just misinterpreting the perspective in an image.
The perspective seen by our eyes changes when the viewing distance changes. The relative sizes of objects does not change, but the absolute size (i.e. angular size) does change. It is this change of angular size that causes us to misinterpret the perspective captured in the image.
If the image is moved closer to our eyes, then everything in the image looks larger (angular size) and hence everything looks closer by the usual rule of perspective: object size / object distance = image size / image distance. If we increase the image distance then the object distance appears to increase in proportion.
I am not having trouble with this and I never have. I thought you were having trouble with it!
I agree.
No, the perspective we see in a photo also depends on our viewpoint. It is a combination of the perspective captured in the photo and any perspective distortion produced by not viewing it from the centre of perspective. [Maybe this is a problem of terminology if you do not like using the word perspective for the distortions introduced by the viewing position.]
For example, take the skull in Hans Hobein's painting "The Ambassadors".
Viewed normally, the skull is seen with a highly distorted perspective. To see it with the correct perspective it must be viewed from a particular position to the right of the painting and at a very oblique angle. The perspective we see depends on our viewing position.