It's impossible for your camera to always give the same RGB headroom in both raw and display RGB, just because of white balance. Your camera would literally have to alter its filtration of color during exposure, or the raws would have to have WB applied to them (wasting headroom) for your assertion to be roughly accurate. Also, the only time you see headroom in the green channel approximately the same in the raw and display RGB is when the raws have limited headroom, like the "extended" ISO 50 in many FF cameras.
I just compared the Sony A7R2, Canon R5, and Nikon D850 at DxOMark, to see the saturation-based "measured" ISOs, and sure enough, the A7R2 has the least absolute highlight headroom at ISO 100. So, you may see the two histograms looking more similar with your camera than with the others, but that does not mean that your camera histogram is a substitute for a raw histogram, as the red and blue channel histograms will diverge due to WB. You'd have to have a white balance for a magenta light tint, and greyscale subject matter, to expect the two histograms to be as close, consistently. Add highly-saturated highlight colors and WB, and the two histograms will diverge.