I could not agree more. On all points.
Like someone else said: (paraphrased) peoples' relationships with mods may not be great.
Well, it's not always the poster's fault. Sometimes it IS the mod. Open Talk is a good example.
It's not my forum, and Bob and Co. have done a great job to get here...especially so quickly. So my way is moot. But DPR ran well when there were a few admins watching over things. Their sudden addition of mods changed the place. I remember a sizable group from the Nikon forums leaving for a Flickr group they created. Anyway, I see at the other forum they have added more mods than probably reg. members. Makes that place look very unattractive. If I see names I recognize with "moderator" next to their name, I'll keep looking (big deal, I know), but I agree with many others... a "fresh start" would be welcoming.
Maybe don't label mods. That label is part of the power trip. I pushed and successfully had the label removed at a forum I helped mod. Puts everyone on the same playing field...at least visually. Made it more comfortable.
"But what if someone has a problem, who do they contact?" If people have an issue, they can post it in a dedicated forum.
tldr; any people asking if they can come be mods here too... are the wrong people for the job.